I'm a woman! Haha! As long as we have a roof over our heads, food in our bellies, and our wiener dogs (and our cats) I know we'll be fine. Thank you for the kind words.

Wow, I had no idea children produced phermones. I didn't think that started to happen until after puberty.

Okay I have another question: What is your minimum age range? The only reason I ask is because if you're 30 and your age range is 16 or so, I can kinda understand that. One poster said that as BL's grow older their age range grows older, is this true for many BL or just some of them? I know I said one question, but once I think of one thing a flood of other thoughts crowd my mind!

I too don't drink a lot, I don't like to feel dehydrated.

Why can't BL's be in a committed relationship with someone else? I mean, why did you have to break up with your lady? I know that if she found out that she would probably freak out, but isn't there someone out there for you that would understand, maybe even be an outlet for your thoughts?