As some of you already know i was in the same situation as Cat, just different numbers. I was only 11 when i had a thirteen year old..... whats the word.... persuade me... into comminting sexual acts with him. Even that being 5 years ago..... he is my best friend as of right now, and he is perfectly fine. I am the one who became the Boy lover. I can't really voutch for being a boy lover before then but, i don't believe it was meant to be anything different. God is taking me for a ride, that i have learned so much from. And all though i have cried alot too, when i told my young friend that I was a boy lover, and that i loved him, but had no intentions of anything; i started to cry. He said.

"Good. Tears wash away sorrow, so cry as much as you can".
Don't be afraid to cry. Life is Life.