I lost a yf.

Not as in, he couldn't talk to me anymore because of his parents.

As in, he was in a car accident and died.

Would it be romantic to mourn him for decades? Maybe

Would it be wise? No

It would be a dishonor to his memory. The last thing he would have wanted is to be responsible for ruining my life. He would have wanted me to move on and be happy.

The fact something is romantic doesn't make it right.


Move on.