This is an open question for anyone participating in the book study. Due to the personal nature of some questions, feel free to respond anonymously if you prefer.


One of the aspects of our lives that this chapter suggests puts a smile on God’s face is gratitude towards Him for His gifts in our life. As boylovers life presents us with quite a few challenges that non-boylovers do not face. Social stigma, loneliness for our most desired companions, legal fears and complications (which can leave some barred from being around boys, homeless and unemployed), difficulty in finding people who can openly talk to or who can help us with our issues, to name a few.

How can we find ways to be grateful to God in the face of these challenges?