He just didn't want to be exposed on some horrible website as a pedophile-ophile. Seriously, he is cramping his own happiness to accommodate the grotesque deformations of the society he lives in.

My YFs just walk up to me and start chatting as if we're already old friends. I have no way of explaining why we connect so well. They think of me as gay and they are quite happy with that, despite being hetero- or proto-hetero themselves (so far). The alleged lion peacefully plays video games, etc., with the alleged lamb and everyone is happy.

God's love is very active in this world. "The wind blows where it wishes and you hear the sound of it, but do not know where it comes from and where it is going; so is everyone who is born of the Spirit."