Re: Damaged Sexuality
Submitted by Godspell on 2010-08-27 09:10:28, Friday
In reply to Damaged Sexuality submitted by Cat on 2010-08-24 16:28:17, Tuesday
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"My dilemma is this.... what advice should I give to other BLs considering marriage?... in the light of my own experience." My advice comes from my interpretation of your experience and that of other MAAs. I am not married but I know many BLs and GLs who have been. Not a single BL marriage that I know well has worked long term, and I include yours in that. Either it ended in divorce or they are not happy in their marriage. I have heard of a few that worked but they were not people I have been able to talk to extensively to find out more. This topic interests me as well and so far I have not found it to be a positive experience for other people. I am not sure where I heard this saying but I like it "Learn from others' mistakes, you can't make them all yourself." If the topic comes up with someone I am talking to I do not advice them exactly not to do it but I tell them about the BL marriages I know of (without saying who or exact details of course) and hope they learn something. Question for you: What would you tell someone to avoid having the same troubles you have had with marriage as a BL? Gs |
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