Taking out time to understand and get your point; I find that it's a issue
of not being a matter of black or white, but having also a gray area.

All of our body parts grow, and to deal with the feelings and use of each can lead to what one may call the 'forbidden zone' or private parts.

What we see as problematic when it comes to kid's play in a sexual way, can be on the part of a child with an adult, or an adult with a child;
that is to say they were just having fun, with no intent or desire to do something wrong or bad.

This is where Knowledge comes in to play. Can we tell others that it was not abuse when parts of the body had feelings that got out of control? And just what do we mean by 'out of control?'

Is age a factor? Who did what, and why?

Thus in the gray area we can go on and on; -But to what end?

You made some fine points;-but at the end of the day'- How did the feelings
come out of all this playing around with the Forbidden Zone inwhich one's Private parts came into play?

Some do not see a gray area there.

So says the Poll.