When I was a boy... I met a pedophile... or a rather emphoplile (teen attracted... in case my spelling is out)... he was the father of one of the boys in my scout troup. He was sexing his son and any friend his son would invite over... I never got such an invite... but I kinda wanted one.

When I was a teen I met another BL at school... we shared about what boys we liked and even had a sexual relationship for a while... but it fizzled out becuase well... we just were too old for each other... as we got older we lost contact. This was a significant relationship for me because that was when I learnt that I really was not gay.

At 18 I met a BL when I came out to one of the leaders in my church and he confessed to me that he was also a BL. He sexed me a little bit and I let him but there was no attraction on my part... it was just... in it for a good time.

I knew no other BLs then till I was nearly 40.. then I found cblf. Through instant messenger I talked to and eventually met another guy who is kinda a BL/GL and he has become one of my dearest friends... I've almost adopted him into my family (hehe).

I still look forward to meeting a BL in person who is as comfortable with being a BL as I am and we can really talk BL nitty gritty. I know lots of BLs online... metting some of them would be totally AWESOME!!! Come Lord Jesus.

There is a guy from this forum who lives close to me... we are planning to meet sometime soon. I'm looking forward to it.

Blessings
Cat.