yes

yes

I connect with BLs much faster and easier than other people, I have become good friends with some BLs in real life. They are some of my closest friends. I think we have both learned much from each other. My life would be very radically different if I had not met any BLs it would be very hard to say how it would be if that had not happened.

I have met somewhere in the 20s of BLs and some GLs

Now answer your own questions you you pollster.