relax man. I agree with you but you're never going to convince everyone you run into to agree with what you think. It's a debate we have here all the time and really no one on neither side is probably going to change their minds, which is fine. Maybe we can designate a time to vent and let it go most of the time. People don't jump all over you when you mention your boyfriend. Get two people of differing political ideologies and have them debate, at the end neither one will change their opinion which is fine. Diversity of opinion is fine and good in fact.