Thanks for the further explanation. I don't think you came across as rude at all. But I'm sorry, I just don't agree. I don't have the time to get into it too deeply. But as I mentioned in a fairly recent earlier post, if true love alone made it ok to have sex, it wouldn't be a sin for me to have sex with my yf. I can't accept that because my sexual attraction to my yf will wane as he grows into adulthood. So sexually, we remain separated. And yes, it's possible.

Also, under your rules, it would be ok for a married man or woman to have sex with another as long as they were truly in love. This is called adultery and is very clearly spoken of as sin. So in that case, true love is expected to remain separate.

Dakota