Ok, you got me...my mind was trully where it shouldn't have been. Nah, I kind of knew what you probably meant. Anyway, now you should do what I did...go get a bigger bed. When "L" and I were sleeping together, I got a nice, big, fancy queen size water bed. That was back when water beds were still popular and you could get these nice fiber-filled matresses. Oh man, it was hard to get him to actually go to sleep some nights because he wanted to bounce around and have fun...but oh well, it was all a part of having fun. And of course we never had sex, just horsed around until we were both exausted enough to go to sleep. The mornings when he would wake up in my arms were the best!