The attached post is an excerpt from a book called, "She's my wife. He's just sex". (by Sue Joseph ISBN 0 9586754 2 2)

It's about married men who seem heterosexual who go off having sex with men on the side.

There was a chapter in there which is an interview with a lady who works in a support group for women who's husbands are having sex with men on the side. It's got some excellent material on the impact on the wives of these men when they find out about their husband's homosexuality.

Now whilst there are many significant differences between them and us (particularly that the women in the support group this article focuses on all had husbands who WERE sexing men on the side) I also see many similarities between their reactions and stuff that's going on in my marriage.

I think it's a valuable read if you've come out to your wife or are planning to... or if you are hiding things that she don't know about.

Webmasters, I have trimmed this article a lot from it's full size and I do believe that I've kept my quote within copyright allowable parameters... if you have any doubts I can trim it down even more.

Blessings
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