what is true is that a lot of BLs end up in gay relationships. Whether this is because they are also gay, or whether it is an slightly unsatisfactory compromise I don't know. Whether you are 'cute'... well - some boys are never cute, some are briefly, some are for a long time.

If you want to exchange emails, I recommend that you read this discussion of remaining anonymous online

http://www.glgarden.org/safemail/

If you want to email me, eldad@webbleu.net is my anonymous account.