For my part, I think freedom of speech and association are too important to be suppressed just because they are occasionally misused. I even consider that to be true for the currently despised groups (witches, african-americans, Jews, pedophiles.. whatever period of history we happen to be in).

I see cblf as spiritual in focus and, much as I believe that sexuality is a gift from God, I don't feel this is the place for discussing nice legal pic sites. If you re-ask the same question at one of the grand-central-station BL sites like boymoment-dot-com, that might be better. They also have links sections.