I would be so glad if I had a yf spending only one night at my home... just being around me... smelling or not smelling... ;-)

But of course, you're right, if he knows you are a person who respects him it is also your duty to tell him about these things - he will accept it.

To really love is not only to pay compliments but to help coping with real life. "You live to learn."

~ Little Tree ~