Personally, I don't have a problem being nude around boys or them being nude around me as long as it's in an appropriate setting, such as a public shower or pool as you mentioned. By "not having a problem," I mean that I don't see anything wrong with it. I would probably feel some lust to some degree. But I wouldn't want my issues and problems inhibit any boys from being themselves. As long as they aren't aware of my perverted lusting, it won't affect them.

Frankly, there are few occasions in my life at this time where there would be any reason for nudity. But if one should arise, I wouldn't go out of my way to avoid it. But that's me. Others may have more of a problem with it. I think each should do what they think is best for them and the boy.

Dakota