Christian Boylove Forum
Re: The BL Lifestyle

Submitted by blazeofhope on 2009-07-15 01:36:25, Wednesday
In reply to The BL Lifestyle submitted by Blackstone on 2009-07-13 02:41:52, Monday


What is the BL Lifestyle? (For Me)

It is the love you have for boys in which you actively are involved in helping them with whatever their needs are. wanting to be involved in their lives and help them to grow into good citizens and lead them to Christ. I think that in any lifestyle that you live it should be one that Honers our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.

Should we, as Christians, be living such a lifestyle?

That all depends on your own interpretation of what a BL lifestyle is. for me the answer is yes.

Would you really like to live such a lifestyle?

Yes I enjoy being able to be there for boys and do it in a Godly manor. And I have been very blessed in many ways over the years.

What do you think of people who live such a lifestyle?

Once again that depends on ones interpretation of what a BL lifestyle is. I can only speak for myself on this one for that reason. And I think any one who loves helping children and does so in a Godly manor is a blessing to have in this world.

I have a love for boys and I can either accept that and use it for good and use that love to help boys and Honer Jesus. Or I can live in denial which I have found to be miserable. Or use it for selfish purposes and live for myself and my own enjoyment not caring about how it affects the boys in my life.

Is it really a lifestyle? I think for me the lifestyle is being a Christian and using the things in my life for good Honoring Christ and not feeding my sinful nature.

Blessings

Blaze

Follow ups:

Re: perfectly stated (nt) - Robert-I 2009-07-15 15:18:20, Wednesday (0)

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NOTE = I posted this above, as I found it to be helpful in the point I feel I was trying to make about "Lust."

"Boy Love" I did not see as a Lifestyle:- But being a Christain, one can also be a lover of boys.

If one is not a Christian, then it just becomes a matter of interpretation
of one who finds, along with others; that such love, due to lust becomes a problem.

There are other follow ups that I would like to add my comments to.
But only, if it's ok.