I think exactly how one defines "boylove lifestyle" will be quite different depending on who you ask. Of course non-blers will most likely have the most negative of definitions, but even blers will disagree on what the term means to them. There are certainly similarities I have noticed among blers, besides the most obvious. Most blers like movies with boys in them, and not just the movies that show boys in various forms of undress. Most like boy singers. Most like boy sports. Well, let's just simplify it and say most like pretty much anything where boys are involved. But I've never thought of there being an actual "lifestyle" associated with being a boylover. Take out the sexual aspect, and blers are just like any other adult who likes kids. And since I supress the sexual side of it, I don't consider my lifestyle to be any different than anyone else's.

Dakota