I admit it, I do not have a thick skin in some areas...maybe in a lot of areas. I know I don't when it comes to my being a BL and how I feel about that part of me. I also know I don't when it comes to the people whom I love, like the YF I used to have. You should have seen me when they brought his name up in those meetings...oh man! They kept asking me if I had ever had sex with him or in any way been sexual with him, and I was just beside myself.