This man that I know - I would say is passive-aggressively going down hill.
Where it may seem he's having more good days then bad - yet the truth is - He's just giving in to his addictions - passing the time.

He told me it makes him want to scream.
Let go and forget.
He's really worn down by his addiction to sex and pornography.
His life just seems to stall.
And go no where.
And there is literally nothing in his power that he can do to make things go forward.

And God certainly isn't helping - said the man.
I've yet to be able to honestly to tell the man to seek God first.
That really would be a tease to him.
And I do want to him to take me seriously.
But no prayers are being answered - and nothing is truly going his way.
As each day passes, he becomes more in love with the males around him.
Each day he grows more angry - wondering why some people who already have a lot - get even more. And why not even for a day he can taste happiness.

The man isn't stubborn. Or even the slightest bit off. He's right. And so far - he makes a lot of sense. I don't know what to tell him. I have no reason to tell him to pray harder or to seek God.

In fact - the opposite seems to make more sense.
Perhaps tell him it's all a lie?
Tell him to give up - forget about God and live his own life the way he wants to. I mean, could it honestly hurt him anymore?

He believes in God, and his spot is reserved in heaven.
But he has no idea how sitting in his stalled life..screaming.. ever helped anyone.

Is it some kind of puzzle?
Or some kind of joke?
He's a lazy - irresposible (more in this case - he has none)
Unemployed man.

And nothing changes.
It makes ME want to scream.