If I might interject (and I hope you are still with us and still plan on reading and posting...), I must ask you, who says there is no sexual desire? I have heard of very few people who claim to be BL's also claim they have absolutely no sexual desire for boys. I will easily admit that I have sexual thoughts and desires towards boys, but I also make the decision not to act on them. I have decided to follow a life of celebacy and so far this has been the best way for me. I can still be around boys and interact with them but I refuse to be sexual with them. It is my choice and I believe that it is the right one; for myself anyway. What is boylove without sexual desires? I wouldn't know...I still have sexual desires but don't act on them.

Chris