So what is pedophilia to you? A molester isn't someone who is attracted to prepubescent of adolescent boys or girls but someone who's looking for sex from anyone and because they can't get it from an adult male or female they 'take' it from a child who may be a family member or close family friend. If you want to deny what pedophilia is, then fine but don't suggest anything you cannot back up. I have done years of research and self discovery to understand the truth of pedophilia not the illusion.

Now, if pedophilia at it's core or at least a part of it is not about sex than you should be able to go out and tell everyone you are pedophile and have no problems.

Of course that is not true which is why you come to these forums so you can be anonymous because deep down you know the truth of who you are and what your desires are.