Hey Jonas27, of course I remember you :D it hasn't been THAT long. It's good to know you're still reading and hanging about.

I like both terms really.

Pedophile to me is a technical term. It simply means to me an adult attracted to children. When I'm discussing this subject with non-pedos I always like to promote that definition over the "child mollestor" definition that is commonly associated with it. Over all my goal is to take the monster out of the terminology.

Boylover is the term I love best though. Mostly because I love the word "boy" so much, and because LOVING boys is a great expresson of both how I do feel and how I want to behave. I feel such deep and powerful affection for the boys in my life. I enjoy their company and boyishness so much. In these two senses I FEEL love for them. Then, I try and express myself and relate to boys in only loving ways. I subdue my unholy desires and seek only to act in ways around boys that will bring blessing and nurture into their lives; in this respect I'm loving them practically. Boylover... yep that's who I am and who I strive to be.

Blessings
Cat.