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I see your point. For me personally, the idea that I might harm the boy psychologically if I gave in to temptation is certainly helpful in resisting that temptation. That would no longer hold true if I were attracted to "legal" ages, since older boys and men are fully capable of making their own choices. However, I would gladly give up this "help" in resisting temptation if it meant that there was absolutelu 0 chance I would ever be sexual with an underage boy and risk harming him. We boylovers can dance around the issue of risk all we want. But the harsh reality of it is this. No matter how absolutely positively sure we are that we would never ever risk harming a boy by being sexual with him, the fact remains that as long as we have that desire, the risk is there, no matter how minute. In that respect the pedophile haters are right. The only way there would be absolutely no risk is if we didn't desire it. Dakota |