to a Christian community that he seems very enthusiastic about. It seems like a great opportunity for him and they are very experienced at coping with people with issues, so I suspect he will get the right mixture of support and challenge - which I've been struggling to give him. On the other hand it will leave a LARGE hole in my life - it's been really good having him around over the past few months and now he's going to be a long way away. But I am sure it is for the best for him.