Welcome to CBF. We all have to deal with lust. Keep in mind that your attractions are not a sin. It only becomes a sin if you feed it or dwell on it or act on it. We have no way to control who we are attracted to. We can only control what we DO about it. As long as you can be certain you will not act on your attractions toward your young friend, there is no reason to end the relationship. You only need to end it if you feel you can't control yopurself.

Dakota