i cant offer u any spiritual advice because im not a spiritual person.

all i can say is this. there is nothing wrong with a relationship between a man and a boy as long as it is healthy and good like any other relationship. if the relationship becomes unhealthy for the kid then u shud either change it or stop it, otherwise theres no harm.

right now i have a syf who i have a relationship with but it's becoming unhealthy on my end so i am attempting to change it so it's better for both of us. it's really just like any other relationship.