Hi Kid,

From what I can gather from your post, your relationship with that older person was a good one and one that didn't feel bad to you at any time. The way I see it, if it didn't look bad, "smell bad", "feel bad", etc, then it probably wasn't bad. When my "L" (who was my young friend) and I were doing our thing and right into the thick of our friendship, some people had some negative comments and things to say about us and even to me. I just had to let it go because I knew none of it was true and that they didn't know the truth about us. To this day, I think some people still believe that something wrong was going on, but oh well, who cares. I know that our friendship wasn't ever about sex, but of love of the heart; and that's all that matters.

Welcome to CBLF, by the way. I'm glad you are here.

With Love in Christ,
Chris