No, I don't think so at all; if you don't mind me coming in and commenting in this discussion. I consider myself a boylover and not a pedophile. However I find it very difficult to relate to most young boys. Maybe it's the way I look, but I don't think so. I just get very nervous around boys, and actually just children in general. I believe it has a lot to do with my problems with paranoia, I don't know, but it is very real and quite troublesome. But at the same time, I know in my heart how much I love children, and that I could never, ever do anything to hurt them. Mostly I would just love to take them in my arms and give them all hugs. Beleive me, it makes it trully frustrating to live like this and I do wind up spending a lot of my free time alone, which I hate.

Chris