I agree with you Cat. "Pushing the limits" as to what we allow ourselves to look at just makes us want to push even further. We think that if we look at pics or vids that are just a bit more risque, then we will be satisfied. But we aren't. We want more. It feeds on itself and is definately NOT healthy, either for our mental health or our relationship with God.

As far as finding a legitimate release for our sexual feelings, I don't think there is one. There are legitimate releases for our loving feelings towards boys, but I tend to doubr there will ever be a legitimate release for our sexual feelings towards them. Yeah, I know that sucks (no pun intended), but it is what it is.

Dakota