When you are talking about relationships, what exactly are you speaking of? I was living with my YF for the past three years. We never had anything sexual occur, but it wasn't beyond my thoughts. In fact, to control my urges I used the computer pictures as an outlet. What makes this horrible, is that I had this absolutely beautiful, intelligent, young boy living with me, such a great kid, and I had to use pictures on the internet to stear myself clear from ever committing the most evil sin against him. Please provide more explanation about your relationship theory.