Blackstone, Chris, Dakota....I agree with you guys very much, and just like you guys have implied there are two sides in regards to the outcome wether a boy will feel abused following sexual interaction. Hence my analogy the two faces on a coin, both scenarios exist, and there maybe certain factors involved determening which side the coin lands on, and in this case as others have mentioned it could be social factors or it could very well be a personal understanding the individual comes to by themselves which lead to feelings of abuse later but regardless the outcome is somewhat unpredictable just as a coin being fliped, and I dont believe a childs wellbeing should be determined by the flip of a coin.

Dakota you said "any positive impact you can have on a boy's life can be made without sexual contact. So why take the very real risk of causing harm when you can do as much for the boy by simply being his friend?"

Im going out on a limb here but my impression I got from the people on BC seems they are more concerned with self acceptance through self gratification then anything else. It seems they believe they need to fulfill all aspects of their BL desires to be satisfied with themselves even if their action hurts another human in the process.

Whilst there maybe have been few others that may have agreed with me at BC, the general impression I got was otherwise due to the monkeys runing the place to suit their own needs and speaking out on behalf of everyone else and the cogs showing favouritism to those monkeys only reinforces certain bias ideas.

CliveStaplesLewis and Rainboy, thanks for your support and understanding as well.

Ironically all your views seems much more "liberal" then the guys on BC who think they are, because you guys accept that various scenarios exist regarding this issue and the outcome rather than just the one narrow minded, one sided delusional views on BC that have been shaped to suit their own needs. It seems yous have considered various aspects, weighed up the odds and and based a decissions accordingly. I thank you guys for being so open minded and reasonable. I felt like I was talking to a brick wall in BC so you guys really are a breath of fresh air.

Unique