Congrats on your new nic, Paranoid, lol. Yes, being attracted to younger boys is much like being gay in the respect neither group chooses it. Something else you might find interesting is that some boylovers, like myself, also have a normal sexual attraction to women, while others are gay. And some boylovers are not sexually attracted to any adult, male or female. They are only attracted to boys. I've always found this to be quite weird, but nonetheless true. One other thing you will find is that boylovers' attractions to boys is not only sexual. Most, like myself, have a very strong love for boys that has nothing to do with sex. Yeah, the sexual attraction is there too. But most people assume that's ALL we feel. Personally, I think boys are what puts sunshine in the world. I love seeing them smile or laugh. I love their rowdiness, their unique way of looking at things,, just their overall "boyness." One of my joys in life is when I can be a positive influence for a boy, even if it's something as small as offering an encouraging word when needed. I just wanted you to know that there is more to being a boylover than most people think. Welcome to CBF, BTW.

Dakota