first of all, i really dont care enough to start an argument with you and defend my opinion and all that.

the problem with your "do onto other as you want done onto yourself" is that not everybody operates or thinks like u. just because u can take it doesnt mean everyone can. just because u wouldnt be insulted doesnt mean everyone wont.

ur right about ur relationship choices. but u can definitely find someone where it's an equal relationship, one where you wont feel like ur a burden.