Your being insecure because its as not my intention to insult anyone, but it seems everytime I voice my views people are going to feel like im taking the moral high ground because my views are different and governed by my morals.

If your content with your choices then you should never feel insulted by different views. If I felt someone was putting me down for my opinions I would fight to discuss it and to defend it rather than feel insulted. The choices I make in my life I like to feel confident in enough to be able to justify it, but if I find that I cant then I start re-considering my ways. Thats just me.

Although Blazeofhope took offence to me questioning marriage, it was not my intention to insult him, its my way of learning about situations by expressing my blunt views and then waiting for a reteliation to see if my views can be changed.

Everything I do in my life no matter how big or small is based on "do onto other as you want done onto yourself" I live my life every moment that way. If I'm sharing my views on a sensitive topic by passing my blunt wievs onto people its because I can take criticsm back myself, If someone criticised something I was doing which they felt to be wrong I would not get hurt or offended by it, i would fight back to discuss it especially if I believed I was %100 right and if I cant justify it I would reconsider it. As hard as its to believe Im an exteremly open minded person and have come to the choices I have through eveluating the situation and thinking of the outcome different possibilities.

So I dont think anyone should be getting all worked up about my comments, if you really believe what your doing is righteous then convince me of it but if you dont feel you need to then thats fine too. I often taunt and tamper with things to try and understand them better and to broaden my views especailly if I need convincing otherwise, as stubborn as I sound if you say something to me that hit home with my logic I might even change my views.

Ive thought about marriage for a while and I am disabled after an accident so I have pressure from my parents to find someone for when they pass away but despite my disabilty I still refuse to.... 1- pass the burden of caretaking onto someone else, 2- Be with someone Im not attracted to and feel like im being deceptful and dishonest to them.

But if I was being blunt about my views its because I often question everything in this world to try an better understand it and express my intial views to see if my views can be changed and to see if I made the right choice. I guess it my way of making up for the things I cant control in life. Things I cant be honest about I make up for being blunt and speaking my mind even if it means the truth hurts. Hate me if you want but this is me.