The idea that boylovers all have a certain theory or mindset in common is absurd. Even more absurd is the belief that you could somehow spend a few hours studying a subject and come up with a brilliant argument that will affect the worldview of someone who has spent a lifetime studying and contemplating that subject.

The prevailing view on this forum is that it is always wrong to have sex with a minor. Thus, I think if you actually studied this forum, you would find that you agree with most people here.

In the BL community as a whole, you will find a wide variety of opinions. You will find free love hippie types who believe Renee Guyon's battle cry: "sex before eight, or it's too late", you will find those who believe consensual sexual relations with their beloved is ok, you will find those who believe sex with boys is ok only in some circumstances, you will find those who believe that sex with a boy would be ok if it weren't for societal pressure, and you will find those who believe sex with a boy is never ok. You will find a great variety of boy lovers, each with their own feelings and beliefs. You will find some that have sexual relationships with boys, some that have platonic relationships with boys, and some that do not have any relationships with boys. You will find bls who believe themselves to be ticking time bombs, and others who are confident in their ability to control their emotions. You will find some who are deeply disturbed and others who are mentally stable. You will find idiots and geniuses. You will find low lifes and community leaders. If you truly study the bl community, what you will eventually find are your neighbors, your friends, your family, and your loved ones.