You say "ANYONE who has sex may end up regretting it later... age is irrelevant to that issue"

Of course adults make bad decissions too but when an adult makes a bad decission they have no one else to blame but themselves. Your old enough to take responsibility for your bad choices so live with it. But if a child who make a regretful decission under and adults influence then he has no one else but the adult to blame for taking advantage of him at a vulnerable time. How can you compare the two honestly, do you really believe and adult with life experience and a childs regret and bad decission are comparible?

Do you know how adversely a growing mind can be effected by negative thoughts, regret, abuse, and emotional suffering as in comaprisson to an adults? While adults may recover from the bad choices they made as an an adult a minor can experince more complex an prolonged trauma.

You also implied that you dont belive a boy has to be gay in order to enjoy sexual contact by an adult. How many heterosexual straight men do you know that are willing to have sex with other men!! I doubt many at all, if we took a bunch of heterosexual man who have no intention or interest in having sex with other men and we visited a time in their child hood when they were naive and would have been easily swayed to take part in sexual activity, do you honestly think just because it felt good for them then they would now have pleasurable memories? obviously not, because if they did then they would NOT be heterosexual right now an they would be trying to vist their child hood by seeking other guys.

Your missing one major point an that is.... If an adult refuses to do something when their an adult its because they have come to that conclusion through experience and feel satisfied with that choice but if they happen to do something when they were younger which they normally would not do now then that means other adults have no right to put minors in a position that they are not ready for.

So your mollestor got lucky and happened to come across another BL who has no regrets but what are the chances of that repeating when BL's are a minority anyways, If you were a full heterosexual male I can bet your experinces would be different had you come across your molestor and showed interest towards sex back then due to a naive nature. There are just as many cases like that in literature and through history where adults speak out about abuse and blame themselves for being willing participants at the time.

Younger people have a right to make choices they will be conetent with for the rest of their life and if their not ready for that yet than no one has the right to jeapordise their emotional and mental well being based on assumption!

If an adult isnt conetnt by his/her choices then bad luck to them, they made it , but if a kid is unhappy with a wrong decission then they will continue learning from that until they are ready to accept responsibility for their own mistakes and choices as an adult.

A lot of the opinions Ive stated here are purely from my own logic and morals not from society's prejudices. While I understand I have to learn more self acceptance, I find your views in regards to minors and sexual contact extremely wrong for so many reasons, I think your assuming a lot based on your own experience and your missing a lot of the relevant and important facts I pointed out. While I understand they are just "views" and not practice I wish you could see why it is so wrong.