The internet is full of selfish people who have the freedom to say what they want. does it hurt others? YES it does, but there is nothing we can do to change this. The only thing we can do is in our own lives and what we do or say on this site. There are no picture galleries and sexual fantasies are not posted here. Instead there is a prayer room and a Bible to access, we talk about the Lord His Word and how He helps us overcome and live a life that glorifies His Son. We choose to love boys the way God intended us to. In My own personal life there are many who now know that I am a BL and love me anyway. I do not get "THE LOOK" from any of them while playing with their kids or holding them in my arms and their not afraid to leave them alone with me. I do conduct myself responsibly around kids and use self control when I am alone with access to tools like the internet. I also found a counselor that I can trust that has a lot of experience with the issues I face and have to deal with, including being a BL.

So what I am saying is that although I can not change what others do or what many people think about me or any BL, I can and will live my life with Christ at the center of it. I can and will focus on what I can do and the example that I can set. I can and will focus on the things that I do have control over. I refuse to live my life frustrated over what others say and do and think.

God Bless

Blaze