I'm in Australia,

I have told 3 counsellors now that I'm a BL.
They are only obligated to report me if I admit to anything illegal. So I've been safe there.

I even (in a fit of over-zealous morality) once called the local child welfare and told them I was a pedo but since I hadn't committed an actual offence against any child they told me they didn't want to know me and that I'd be silly to go any further.

I have been and am out to some of the elders in my church... most of my close friends and my family.

In all about 23 non-BL adults know I'm a BL and overall I've found them to be very supportive. My friends have always trusted me with their kids... thought that trust has been a little shaken since my marriage started falling apart...I still haven't had anyone ask me to keep away from their kids.

Blessings
Cat.