Dakota you say "Well, talking is not molesting. And doing what you suggest is as bad as what others want to do to us merely for our attractions."

While it may not be physical molestation, talking about the intent and dirty actions as some have done on those forums does nothing but show BL as a devious perverted threat. It plays in the hands of society and those who read the comments develop a wrong stereotype. Their just smearing the name for everyone else just beacuse they feel the need to verbally express their perversion do they have a right to be selfish and ruin it for everyone else?

Would hurt if they at leat practiced some verbal self control and kept harmful thoughts in their oewn heads knowing that the things they say is only going to harm the image of every other BL.

Have you seen the comments here by SchreiberBike where he says "but my skin crawls when I look at some of the postings."
http://www.stumbleupon.com/url/www.cblf.org/

..and that was just about cblf, can you imagine what he and others would think if they saw Boychat. I realise some of yous dont care about what society thinks anymore but I do because unfortunately the majority rules in this world and hold the power and influence over the way monority is perceived.

In regards to talkin dirty - I also dont think just because a human has been given certain emotions its not a just or acceptable enough of a reason to act on it. I know this is a harsh and extreme example im about to give but what about murderes and rapists, maybe they should make a support group like Boychat and post pictures of people they wanna kill or rape and talk openly about their desires of their hunger for blood and etc, after all its an emotion they have so it must be right and their not really harming anyone their just talking about it just like the people in Boychat ?!?

I know some of you will reteliate on my example but these are my views and I realise Boy love goes deeper as an emotion than someones psychotic feelings but my point is God gave us all sorts of emotions, including jelousy, hate, lust, vengfulness but then God didnt say just because I have given you this emotion it makes it worthy to act upon it or to abuse it, hence the 10 commandments. Not everything we feel has to be acceptable even by our own standards.