Dakota on 2008-09-14 20:16:08
Can I interject something? From your posts, it appears you don't think it's possible to separate love from lust. Let me assure you it is. Most boylovers have a very deep love for boys that has nothing to do with sex.
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I do think its possible to seperate love from lust but even love towards and innocent child who dosent know that your love is based on superficial admiration and self gratification is wrong in my opinion. Your claming you would explain to them if they could understand, well tell me this then...when those kids turn into adults will you tell them all about it? that you loved them without lust but that your still a Boy lover ? and answer me honestly please. There shouldnt be a problem telling them if you think they love you unconditionally and that if you belive there is nothing wrong with what your doing.

Dakota you speak for yourself when you say you have boundries between love an lust and from what I understand you practice self control and dont cross those boundries but still you cant speak for everyone out there. Obviously if everyone thought like you and no BL had ever crossed the line or acted sexually towards kids then then society would not have lableled and rejected boy lovers due to all the horrible casses that have ahppened out there.

When BL's start interacting with Boys as you mention whos to say some will not cross the line or have slip ups, its like playing with fire and ocasionaly some will get burnt. Your not aware of everyones interactions and your not around to monitor or control their behaviiour 24/7 you dont know what goes on behind closed doors. So if you start saying it ok to meet boys and be friends who are you actually saying that comment to ?

Because everyone is different some people are hurtful, dangerous and selfish and have no control. Are you saying that only BL's with self control should be allowed to meet boys or are you saying its ok for all boy lovers to meet boys regardless of the fact some people are dangerous and evil and will hurt, abuse, kill, rape, force, trick kids into sexual acts. If you think only some should be allowed then who decides which ones should and which ones shouldnt as far as some people are concerned their no threat in their own minds but im sure cases have occured wher they have acted out.

Some people who might think they have self control might take your advice but then they might find they failed, but when they fail it comes at a terrible cost , who sufferes then, the child, now can you now see why this is wrong?

So in conclusion I dont think anyone should for the sake of principle and justice wether its love or lust, I think what we have is our problem, we should just practice self control, because if you truly belive in God then you will also belive this is a test from God, and God tests those he loves so if you pass the test and prove to God that even though the whole world is becoming a victim to their desires and that your not going to despite the fact that your burden is more difficult than most then I can bet there are great rewards waiting for you on the other side.