why would you assume that we would even have a romantic relationship with a boy? I for one give a boy the love he needs for whatever his age is. Like a son I love boys, I do not attach or put my personal feelings as a boylover on a boy. And I think most if not all of us feel this way. So what do you think that we are all just filled with lust and want to trick boys into something. You are way off, I kiss and hug my grandchildren and they are at that age and are in need of that kind of affection. I have had young friends that are older we went shooting and did things they liked to do helped with homework and much more because at that age that is the type of love thy need. Just like any sin lust can be controlled it is a choice. You don't stop loving or not have a relationship because of thoughts that are controllable. So I will kiss and hug and love and feel no guilt because lust and sex have nothing to do with it. Is it so hard to believe that there are those of us who put others first and show the love that God intended us to for boys.

God Bless

Blaze