Being new to this whole board I began reading through the messages and came across comments from some of you saying they are married or have kids. I dont understand this, can someone please explain it to me?

I thought Boy lovers were just Boy lovers, although Im very new to this and never had interaction with other BL's before I had never thought BL's could be a combination of Bisexual / Heterosexual / with Boy Love feelings all at the same time. Lucky for those of you who are a combination of the above, that means you could live a normal life.

Im envious of yous that your able to be happy in a normal loving heterosexual relationship and forget about burdening yourselves with the complications that come with Boy love.

Although I feel concerned for the wellbeing of any kids that may be born out of this marriage especially if those individuals lack self control or empathy, although the thought of one having inappropriate attractions towards ones own child is somewhat sickening to me there are probly cases out there where this has happened. Im also curious if your wifes were reluctant to have kids when yous told them anout your BL feelings.