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Re: How do I live life this way?

Posted by Burdened on 2008-09-14 07:48:03, Sunday
In reply to Re: How do I live life this way? posted by marc on 2008-09-14 06:08:11, Sunday

But I bet there is no honesty behind that relationship, I perefer to be as true and honest to myself as possible. By honesty I mean if you were to instigate a relationship with soemone younger are you going to be truthful right away and tell them your motivations and that you like them the way you do, are you also going to ask them if they like you the way you like them? Im guessing not.

What about the more important issue like wether they are even able to grasp full extent of the whole thing not to mention the coruption their minds are being exposed to at an innocent age when they should be protected from such things, that could cause them pyschological issues later on in life.

I saw a news documentary on tv once wher a young adolescent had began relationships with webcam and acepted money from adults but when he beacame older he realised he had made a mistake and felt he had been taken advantage of, then later he sued the adults in court who had participated for taking advantage of him. This is an obvious case that younger people dont know what they want and their not old enough to decide, this obviously shows the mentality of developing minds. It seems they act out of impulse without knowing the full extent of what they want and their own actions, even adults make choices they later regret and wisdom and certainty comes with age so I cant imagine a younger person knowing the full extent of what their getting themselves into.

I can bet if you aksed any of those young people who have been taken advantage of later on in life when they became a lot maturer wether they would have started a realtionship knowingly in their younger years the answer would most likely be..No! Because they would now be at an age where they feel they are able to make more precise well informed decissions, and thats where the regret would come in.

Where as when a relationship begins between two mature adults its obvious that they fancy each other and they let that be known to one another right from the start. But the whole thing of what your suggesting seems somewhat deceitful, selfish and one sided for the purpose of your own gain. I dont mean any disrespect, and I apoligise if it came across that way but this is how I feel on the issue.


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