there are times in my life when I have thought pretty well everything that you have written in your post . . . the only way that I could cope with this was through my belief that others have no rights over me and, if they judge, it becomes essentially their problem rather than mine. The only way I could reach that conclusion in my heart, rather than just in my mind however, was through faith. Not knowing whether you believe in God or not I won't go any further for the minute . . . .