Guys I don't want to be a party pooper and so far I haven't seen anything posted that has concerned me, but I wanted to do some preventative maintenance.

Quite a few links to youtube vids and boy music sites have been posted recently. This is ok but please consider a few things:

Some guys struggle with addicitons to looking up inappropriate content on the net. Speaking for my own self (ie: not as a moderator) looking at harmless stuff can increase the temptation to look at less harmless stuff.

I really desire for this to be a safe place for BLs struggling with temptation to come and be and to come and get support. I don't want it to be a place of added temptation.

As I said these are my own views (not official site policy) you don't have to agree with me.

My concern is that we could get carried away and start posting links to youtube vids or sites that are less appropriate. I mean, even viewing those ones that were linked exposes one to thumbnails of "see me dancing in my undies" with a pick of some topless 10 year old.

Please don't stop posting links and discussing boys in cyberspace because of this warning, but please also be considerate of how these may impact others when you do.

Blessings
Cat.