Which commandment

"You shall not covet your neighbour's ...err... son" "The lust of the eyes" "The lust of the flesh" "Flee sexual immorality" etc.... I'm talking about both my thought life and my actions. Like you know those times when you follow a cute boy around the shopping center and you think about what you'd love to be doing to him. And those times when you catch a glance up a boys shorts and get an eyeful and you stand there having a good gawk.... and those times when.... well you get the idea I hope. To clarify, I don't think "loving" a boy is against God's commandments... I was thinking more about "lusting" a boy. Also for me the struggle is against the commands to provide physical sex for my wife (ie: 1 Cor 7 - early verses). I am coming to terms with the reality that I just can't stand doing it, and it's difficult for me to reconcile that with my "duty" under law to do it. Blessings Cat.