I would talk to the pastor about it. He DOESN'T have more important things to think about and deal with. What could be more important than some of his flock showing very un-Christlike behaviour? Maybe you think the budget might be more important? Or what songs the choir will sing? He may or may not be able to do much about how individuals act, but he needs to be made aware of it. Maybe he should include Christian love in a few of his sermans and talk about what that means. Cause there sure are a few people who need to hear it.

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