I have been at boychat and other places, and I want to stress what you say about the big differences of that place to theirs.

It was a big relief for me to find this one.

Folk posting here did do a lot of reflection about the moral and spiritual implementation of their sexual preference into their life, as did I.

Religion and the urge for refining ones soul helps.

Most of us here, as far as I got it from other posts, try to refine their sexual attraction to boys as much as possible. Teaching them, counselling them, doing social work.

They try to sublimize and from what I read here, they are doing really, really well.

Nobody out there tells our tale, the only news you read of pedos in the papers is, when a kid has been harmed.

To speak about my struggle.
Yes, it is a lasting one, and I can not gurantee not to stumble one day under certain circumstances, but I will do my best to avoid them. I do not have to go out into the storm, but my strength has been proved regarding wind.

If not only for the sake of saving my soul, then for the sake of not harming a human being I love. In this case a boy. Without love nothing works in my private parts, so I guess I am doing well.

And, for the record, I am slim and good looking, as they say. :-)